Once you’ve acknowledged your lack of appreciation, start appreciating that person more. Ask yourself if you’re treating your partner the way you treat your clients? Are you as good to your significant other as you are to other people in your life? If the answer is ‘no,’ then say so to your partner.
What if you are one of those couples who is navigating a difficult time and you want to rekindle the spark you once had together? The first step is to acknowledge your role in the situation. Couple that with our adopted attitude of novelty and replacement and you’ll understand why fewer people stay together through the difficult times. Why haven’t we figured it out yet?Įsther says it’s because we have so many more choices today - something we’ve never had before. Obviously, she knows a few things about the world of relationships! And on today’s show she discusses why relationships are still complicated after thousands of years, why men deserve more freedom in their accepted roles in life, and how we can rekindle any neglected relationship.Īlthough we’ve been in relationships as long as we’ve been in existence, we’re still experiencing significant challenges and problems in our relationships. Her book, Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence, is an international bestseller that has been published in 24 different languages. She is a licensed and practicing psychotherapist who has been profiled by The New York Times and The New Yorker. Today on The Art of Charm, Esther shares why men need more roles than simply the breadwinner, how we can appreciate the relationships we have, and why the quality of our lives really is dependent on the quality of our relationships.ĭownload Episode Worksheet Here More About This ShowĮsther Perel’s work is groundbreaking and pivotal to today’s perspective on relationships.
Esther is a two-time TED speaker who wrote the New York Times best-selling book Mating in Captivity. Esther is also an executive producer and host of the popular podcasts Where Should We Begin? and How’s Work? Learn more at or by following on Instagram.If we’ve been in relationships since the dawn of humankind, why are they still so complicated? Here to answer that question is psychologist Esther Perel. Her newest book is the New York Times bestseller The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity. Her celebrated TED Talks have garnered more than 30 million views and her international bestseller Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence is a global phenomenon that has been translated into nearly 30 languages. Fluent in nine languages, she helms a therapy practice in New York City and serves as an organizational consultant for Fortune 500 companies around the world. Psychotherapist and New York Times bestselling author Esther Perel is recognized as one of today’s most insightful and original voices on modern relationships.
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